He Says...

तुझे विचार खूप मोठे आहेत. तू खूप मोठी होणार आहेस मुली. पण एवढ लक्षात ठेव. मोठ्या लोकात जाशील, त्यांचे विचारही मोठे असतील, त्यांच्या सवयी पण मोठ्या असतील. मग त्या सवयी आपल्याला पट्लया नही तरी त्यांचा आदर करावा लागेल, त्या आपल्याशा कराव्या लागतील आणि कित्येकदा, आपण बरोबर असलो तरी आपला अभिमान मोडीत काढून त्यांच्या समोर नमाव लागेल. हे सगळ करायला तयार आहेस?

शेवटी निर्णय तुझां आहे आणि तो तुलाच घ्यायचा आहे. काहीही झाल तरी आम्ही तुझ्या पाठीशी असू. आमच काय आहे, आम्ही आज आहोत, उद्या नही. संसार तुला करायचाय, आयुष्य तुला काढायचय. काही अजिबात पटल नही तरी पटवून घ्याचय. आम्हाला हे कितीही आवडल नाही तरी पाहुणे आले की आम्ही त्यांच हात जोडून स्वागत करू. त्याना योग्य तो आदर देऊ. का? कारण ते आपले संस्कार आहेत. आणि तुला हे संस्कार पुढे चालू ठेवायचे आहेत. तुझ्यावर एवढा विश्वास आहे की शेवटी तू जो निर्णय घेशील तो योग्यच असेल.

I can never forget this. There were tears in his eyes..

Three Things

1. Be happy NOW. Not when I earn blah or when I buy a BMW
2. Family and friends. These are the people who will be with you till your last breath. Make sure you tell them that you love them.
3. Go for it. You might not always succeed. But you will at least have satisfaction that you tried.

COME ON...

When Roger Federer says it, you know he is agitated. But he can turn his game around after pumping his heart. He can return those volleys with added zest. Its all in his hands, in his legs. He can do magic. But this "come on", its not helping me. Trying to look at the positive side for really long. I have a feeling its gonna turn around. But I need some sign. At least a slight hint. A ray of hope...

It especially hurts when it is because of no fault of you. There is nothing you can do to help. Just look, and hope for the best. You have no suggestions, no ideas. You are clueless in your head. What can I do to make things better. How can I find newer ways to remain calm, not show the irritation... That is the constant thing going on in your mind, like a background process.

Come on... Cheer up. It will happen. Don't lose hope. Its not here to stay forever. Its gonna go. Just wait, wait for the right time. And then, we will live happily ever after....

How many more words of encouragement can one find? Is there really a happily ever after??

What the hell, of course there is. Things always go right for me. It has never ever gone wrong in anything. Try and recollect one wrong thing in your life.... Yea, thats right. There isn't any. This is also going to turn around. You wait and see. Everything is going to be all right.